Tuesday, 30 August 2016

The surreal feeling when you achieve a goal


My first 'Be At Your Best' program on 27&28 Aug 2016
Last weekend was a milestone achievement of a goal I set 8 years ago. Well, it started as a whisper, more of an idea after I went for Asiaworks’ Basic awareness program in 2008. It was a mere idea that I wanted to be an awareness trainer, that would make my life more meaningful …. but it was only a passing idea.

It kept coming back at random moments but with no significant impact. Then I continued with Asiaworks’ Leadership Program … and LP 139’s vision was to create a 'Loving & Caring World, One Person at a Time. This time the idea turned into a goal … but I had no idea how I was even going to start.

I’ve set and achieved goals before. But this was different. This was out of norm. On hindsight I was beginning to follow my heart. The goal was not logical, even random and I had no clue where to start. You see, I was a successful Finance Director who had financial success with a happy, comfy lifestyle. Why throw it out for something so random? …. Oh and where to start?

But I set a goal … started thinking how do I do this? Then nature offered a stepping stone. The company I was working for was acquired by an American MNC and they offered me … me … a Regional HR Manager’s job … mmm… a stepping stone … and I took it up with no experience nor knowledge of professional HR. Oh boy it was a fun yet steep learning curve. Step 1 : People skills acquired.

Then 2 years later the heart came knocking again … leave, move … but where?  So I quit my job intending to setup a coaching company, again a vague idea with no real clue. After some discussion, the VP counter offered and I moved into a Organization Development role for Asia Pacific. Here was my first experience conducting in-house training in a fun and effective manner. Then I discovered the term 'Culture Shaping' … changing the culture of the organisation by bringing individuals back to the basics of being human. Step 2: training skills and culture shaping idea.
Fun and impactful practical session in the Be At Your Best program
Then again the heart comes .. leave, move … much stronger this time … and I quit my high paying corporate job for an idea of a culture shaping company. Then all hell broke loose and I was lost for 2 months …floating in limbo ... until a friend dragged me into a goal setting workshop on 29th July 2013. That day I met my mentor Elango Thiyagu and since then it has been a roller-coaster ride of discovering myself and what culture shaping actually meant.


In the past three years I’ve talked to hundreds of people, feeding my subconscious mind. Learned marketing from ground zero ; from meeting officers to CEOs. Meanwhile, getting aligned to the laws of nature, reprogramming myself to my new goals, learning how to manage my emotions and thoughts. Doing one day programs then rebranding and introducing the Be At Your Best program to help people live happier lives, setting and achieving personal and company goals while growing personally. My personal growth has been phenomenal and I’ve reached a different level of happiness.
'Be At Your Best' Day 1 on 27 Aug 2016
Last weekend was a milestone achievement because I arrived at my goal. I did a 2 days awareness program successfully. It made me reflect on how when you listen to your heart and set your mind to it, the whole of nature guides and helps you. On hindsight, nature guided step by step in getting the skills. Then I met my mentor, who passed on the program to me, a program much better than I have ever experienced and could have ever conceived … for free … he guided me step by step, building both myself and the program along the way. I feel blessed! To top that I have an awesome support team, volunteering their time and effort for free  ...  giving their best! Again I feel blessed!
Dinner with my awesome support team after the Be At Your Best Program
There is a long exciting way to go but I have arrived at a destination I set 8 years ago. Milestone achievement!

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